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Yes, Mistress: On Being a Female Dom

Typing “BDSM and feminism” into Google predominantly yields results about women who enjoy sexual submission alongisde the age-old debate about whether or not getting spanked by your boyfriend makes you…

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Notes from a Romance Abolitionist: How to Reimagine Romantic Love

At age eleven, I read Distant Waves, a book about a single mother who pretends to be a medium. One day, her family meets Nikola Tesla (please, suspend your disbelief),…

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Sex & Love

Why Is Being Loved by Straight Men So Draining?

Inside Frances’ mind was a to-do list. On it was a small pile of laundry, an almost-due lab worksheet, and an internship deck still missing its final touches. Also a…

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Being Diagnosed with a Sexual Disorder Is Helping Me Heal as a Survivor

A year and a half ago, I returned from a trip and was no longer able to have sex with my boyfriend due to the fear and pain of intercourse.…

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Porn, Masturbation, and Sex-Positive Pleasure for Femme Bodies

When the topic of masturbation comes up, I usually feel the impulse to pull my friends in and whisper. I’ve been thinking a lot about that impulse and the ways…

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Sometimes, It’s Okay to Ghost

Today, ghosting—the act of suddenly cutting off all communication with someone, usually after they’ve expressed romantic interest—is no longer considered remarkable. The explanations behind this behavior generally vary, although there…

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Somebody Tell Sixteen-Year-Olds Choking Isn’t Vanilla

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Sexual Empowerment or Reckless Endangerment?

Once, when I was sitting around with some friends, we were on the subject of how irredeemable men are. To give an example of one of my negative experiences with…

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Our Lady of Autoeroticism: Catholicism, Capitalism, and Female Masturbation

Catholic News Service (CNS) takes its Movie Reviews section very seriously. Propelled by their mission to evaluate films based on their alignment with Scriptures and prominent religious teachings, the CNS…

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Craving a COVID Hoe Phase

I always envied my friends for attracting romantic and sexual attention in high school. To tell the truth, I craved any attention that might have come my way; I was…

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Sex & Love

Yes, Mistress: On Being a Female Dom

Notes from a Romance Abolitionist: How to Reimagine Romantic Love

Why Is Being Loved by Straight Men So Draining?

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We Can Still Be Vulnerable in the Eyes of Others

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Being Diagnosed with a Sexual Disorder Is Helping Me Heal as a Survivor

Porn, Masturbation, and Sex-Positive Pleasure for Femme Bodies

Sometimes, It’s Okay to Ghost

Trending posts

We Can Still Be Vulnerable in the Eyes of Others

Lena Dunham’s “Sharp Stick” Nails Sexual Awakening in the Digital Age

F*ck Your Boy Genius—He Doesn’t Exist

It’s the Perfect Time to Watch Todd Haynes’s Films

Sexual Empowerment or Reckless Endangerment?

Our Lady of Autoeroticism: Catholicism, Capitalism, and Female Masturbation

Trending posts

We Can Still Be Vulnerable in the Eyes of Others

Lena Dunham’s “Sharp Stick” Nails Sexual Awakening in the Digital Age

F*ck Your Boy Genius—He Doesn’t Exist

It’s the Perfect Time to Watch Todd Haynes’s Films

Craving a COVID Hoe Phase

We Can Still Be Vulnerable in the Eyes of Others

Lena Dunham’s “Sharp Stick” Nails Sexual Awakening in the Digital Age

F*ck Your Boy Genius—He Doesn’t Exist

It’s the Perfect Time to Watch Todd Haynes’s Films

What Sex and Healing Are Like for Survivors of Female Genital Mutilation

The Feminine Urge to Not Shower